The Cost of Freedom Buried In The Ground

arlington-national-cemetery-arlington-va128.jpgToday we remember the fallen men and women of our armed forces. Swearing an oath to protect the Constitution from enemies, both foreign and domestic, they gave their lives in popular, and unpopular wars. But it is not enough to remember them alone. Behind every fallen soldier is a wife, husband, parent, or child who has lost a loved one.  Let us remember that for every soldier sent to war there are families left behind, too many of which are never whole again.

And thanks to the National Women’s History Museum, we are reminded why we celebrate Memorial Day in the first place. From NWHM:

Much of women’s history is missing from our public story. One more example — women were almost entirely responsible for the recognition of Memorial Day. Its origin was the Civil War and until recently, the day focused on the terrible War between the states that, at tremendous human cost, ended slavery.

Just weeks after the Civil War ended in April 1865, Ellen Call Long organized a women’s memorial society to reconcile embittered enemies. Usually named some variant of “women’s relief society,” groups sprang up in both the North and South that not only memorialized the dead, but also cared for the war’s disabled and its widows and orphans.

On June 22, 1865, women adopted these profound, forgiving, and future-oriented resolutions. The document read in part:

The object of this meeting is to initiate a Memorial Association…that shall perpetuate in an honorable manner the memory of the gallant dead…

In no invidious spirit do we come; the political storm that shook our country to its foundation, we hope, is passed… We are done with the [Confederate] cause…and are willing to do all that women can do to stem the tide of bitterness…and angry feelings… We will practice and teach forbearance and patience, which must finally bring peace and justice…

Our society has forgotten that women cleaned up the mess. They took the gruesome reality of approximately a half-million dead men, and by promoting cemeteries, led the way in turning blood and gore into something that encouraged serenity and reflection.

In our nation’s capital filled with museums, there is not one to remind us of the totality of the experience of American women. That is why NWHM needs you. Please emulate Ellen Call Long and others who understood that the past is an essential prologue to the future. Support us, “Right Here, Right Now!” by going to and sending a letter to your Members of Congress urging them to give women’s history a home in our nation’s capital by passing HR 1700.

To my mind the best way to honor our fallen soldiers is to exercise the freedoms for which they died, especially when the government tries to claim you no longer possess them.



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3 responses to “The Cost of Freedom Buried In The Ground

  1. When my 3rd Great Grandfather Alexander Fairfax Cooksey died in the Civil War from disease 1864 in Memphis, Tennessee . Disease was rampant in the army camps. And men were the bread winners back in those days. His widow my Grandmother put her middle son up for adoption, and she kept her eldest and youngest with her, my 2nd great grandfather. Many times these adoptions of Civil War dead’s orphans, ended up as farm labor ect…..Charles Sumner Cooksey never used his adopted parent’s last name, and he was full grown and gave his mother’s death info when she died in 1879. They survived but it wasn’t easy, what happened during, and as a result of the Civil War gets a superficial treatment in our children’s history textbooks it was more than just dates & places.

  2. It’s just the highest court in the land…

    Laura makes many good points, Clarence Thomas’s personal story was not of any concern to the Democrats who grilled him…maybe filleted him is the right description.

    Laura Ingraham this morning on Imus in the Morning weighing in on Sotomayer.

    She (Sotomayer) has the right probably political out look for them, and so her personal story is going to be highlighted, and sold, and resold, and retold, and she is going to be an inspiration to Latinas and Latinos. And yet Justice Thomas, and Justice Miguel Estrada, weren’t any such inspiration so they were fair game for ridicule and disparagement.

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